I'm embarrassed to even admit what happened to me today, but I can't stop thinking about it so I will share. I was at the gym this morning, it was 5 am, so i wasn't all there (i'm trying to make myself feel better). I started on the elliptical trainer which I usually do for about 10-15 minutes to warm up and then I run on the treadmill. I usually put my headphones on right away and BLAST my music just to stay awake and motivated, but I had noticed that my battery was low on my mp3 player so I chose to not use it until I ran. So I was starting my workout when I heard the most horrendous conversation going on in front of me. Right in front of the elliptical trainers are a row of stationary bikes. There were three wrinkly old women (ok that is harsh, but you will see why in a minute) riding the bikes at turtle speed and I hear one of the ladies talking about all of the polygamy stuff that is going on in the news. I sort of listen but I am still looking around the gym checking to see who else is crazy enough to be there at that hour when I hear the woman say..."I didn't know anything about mormons until all of this." Then my ears perked up. Then she proceeded to talk for ten minutes about mormons and what they are about. Her two friends just sat there lazily riding their bikes while this one woman said what she thought to be true about mormons. She said things like..."I can't believe these mormon women are getting married when they are 15 and 16 and having children" "They are forced into getting married and these girls are ruled by their husbands, they have no say in their own life" "there are women right here in our area in wards that live like this" "they have a beautiful church right here in aliso viejo that probably cost a lot of money" "do you know that the state of Utah has the highest rate of women on Prozac, they all get married and have children and then their lives are over at these young ages". I was freaking out. My heart was pumping so hard, and I really wanted to march over there and tell her she was crazy. But instead I continued to listen. She went on to say that she used to live in New York and that her husband is a doctor and he had a young "mormon" patient come in that had two kids and she needed medication because she couldn't handle her life with two children and she was only 23. I was sick, but I didn't know what to do. SO guess what I did? NOTHING. Can you believe it. I kept thinking over and over in my head what I would say, but I got scared. I didn't want it to turn out horrible and be a huge confrontation, but why? I am so ashamed at myself, that could have been a great opportunity to tell someone the truth. Why didn't i go on a mission, darn it? Oh yeah, i was a 21 year old who was forced into getting married!!!!!! Well I do see that lady at the gym quite often, maybe I will approach her next time and give her a piece of my mind.